Among the many unique and individual characteristic traits my sons have, their selfless generosity and altruistic demeanor really stand out. During a major renovation project at my sister's and brother-in-law's, Silas, Tayven and Zaniel were over at their house lending a helping hand and their strong muscles. Daily, for about five days, they volunteered their time and energy and worked hard, helping out with whatever was asked of them. Their actions made my heart smile and fill with mama pride. No one asked them if they could help out or even suggested that their assistance would be appreciated. They just simply gave of themselves. Other kids in the neighbourhood could be seen riding their bikes, playing in sprinklers and having summertime fun but that didn't distract my sons one iota. They knew that there would be many summer fun filled days ahead and choose instead to learn all about what was involved in removing an old, rotten floor of an addition and correctly replacing it. To them, being mentored by older family members, sweat, blisters and sore muscles was unequivocally worth giving up a few sun drenched days of summer. Many years in the future, I know that they will look back at this summer and have scattered, fuzzy memories of swim lessons, hikes, trips to the lake, sleepovers, vacations and fun with friends but those five days of hard work and selfless generosity will be what stands out. For it often is that the sense of accomplishment and the sharing of family unity are the essence of impressive and unforgettable memories.
